Deep Throating - The Bugatti Chiron Of Oral Sex.

America in the 1970’s – a decade of disco, questionable fashion choices, and fascinating interpretations of the term “Deep Throat.”

While one meaning was tangled up with the Watergate Scandal, the other was associated with the iconic 1972 adult film “Deep Throat.”

In this cinematic flick, Linda Lovelace’s character goes on a journey of self-discovery, learning that she has a “clitoris” in her throat that can be tickled to produce some orgasmic sensations during oral sex.

While the storyline was intended as a work of fantasy, some women, can have “throat orgasms” – stimulated by deep-throating a penis – we’ll get into that shortly.

For some men deep throating is the Bugatti of oral sex, while other men can’t understand or relate to the fascination.

Before we dive into all the fascinating details of this phenomena lets first define the difference between deep throating and fellatio (Blow Job).

Fellatio:

The word fellatio comes from the word phallic – term for a penis shaped object.

Fellatio means – oral sex act involving the use of the mouth, which is performed by a person on the penis of another person.

The term ‘blowjob’ is an old English slang term that refers to a sexual favor/act – (a “job”) performed by a prostitute on a man.

Deep-throating:

When all of the erect penis is placed inside the mouth.

For Years I’ve been asking men, what is the fascination with deep throating when the most sensitive part of the penis (The frenulum or Trigger Point) is located right where the head and shaft meet?

Funny & Common Answers:

“The sight of a woman being able to deep throat is so erotic and sexy, if I can keep my eyes open. It’s such an amazing turn on and a very rare experience.”

“It’s a feeling of power and I love the visual. I love feeling in control like that.”

“I don’t connect with the dominance/submission dynamic. I love it when a woman gets turned on by giving me pleasure. She doesn’t have to do anything as crazy as deep throating unless she’s enjoying it.”

“Being on the receiving end is a serious ego boost.

“Overrated. I’m more into mutual pleasure. But hey, if she’s into it and enjoying herself, who am I to complain?”

“If the trigger point is a 10, then the rest is an 8.”

For some women, feeling a penis in the back of the throat is a pleasure portal as their vagus nerve is being stimulated.

The vagus nerve passes through the throat and connects to the genitals through the pudendal nerve, which stimulates the genitals. The throat is simply another gateway to orgasmic pleasures.

According to Whipple/Komisaruk – The chest and the throat are directly connected to the cervix. Some women can feel the direct connection between mouth/throat and genitals.

While gagging can be triggered by physical stimulation of the soft palate, it also has an emotional component, aroused by sensations that evoke fear, stress, anxiety, and other intense feelings.

We have the ability to learn how to relax the gag reflex. (This is what sword swallowers and opera singers do.)

For women aspiring to become sword swallowers, opera singers, and deep-throaters, here are a few tips for suck-cess:

Loosen up! A tense mouth is about as useful as a screen door on a submarine.

Practice makes perfect, so grab a dildo and get acquainted with your gag reflex – no bananas, no cucumbers or anything else that can break in your throat.

Keep it slippery, dry mouths and happy penises do not make a good time.

“Untrain” your gag reflex by finding the spot on your tongue where you start to gag. Try relaxing when you get the urge to gag and continue. This will be unpleasant at first, but practice makes better – progressing little by little farther back on your tongue.

Find the comfortable physical position that accommodates the shape/curvature of the penis.

It’s important that you trust your partner. Communicate your boundaries, and make sure you both know your limits and for the love of all things holy, don’t do anything you are not comfortable with.

And finally, remember to play it safe. Deep throating can be a risky business if you’re not careful, so know when to say when and seek medical advice if things go awry.